i once learned love has proximity as its strongest driving factor. 

but, i now realize proximity is in work in any kind of relationship. 

when we are close to people, don't be surprised if they walk the extra mile for you.

but, don't be surprised if they don't on the other day. 

because everything is just temporary. 

someone told me that facebook photos is the best tool to check.

and it's true that i can see people come and go. 

so, if one day someone does something for you, 

and it is not under the proximity law,

at least be grateful and appreciative. 

once, someone called me far away from Ambon,

just to wish me a happy birthday. 

felt so good!! 

it reminded me of all the good times! 

and, did i call back to do the same on my friend's birthday?

no i didn't. 

yea, i am still under the law you see. 

and the bond under this law makes me sick.

how i change, how people change. 

how the whole thing is just like a McDonalds' drive through, 

so, next time, if someone calls you from Ambon, appreciate it.

i believe it is sort of a gift from God. :)