i guess that's why many motivational speakers came up with the idea that we need to be strong. to accept how the way we are. and to be proud of how the way we are. accepting our weaknesses and instead make people to accept us in our own way.
here i am not saying it is wrong. i just wanna say that it makes me sad to see how we overstretch that comforting words into something terrible. we make those excuses for us to stop improving. we try to see ourselves in the best angle and that's it. instead of improving, we start to make others suffer to accept us in our selfish way.
and for me, it is the saddest scene seeing a human being satisfied with his attitude. to make it worse, they say they have to do so to be able to live better in life; stress-free. for me, it sounds more like a way to live life in "my selfish way".
i believe this is not the point the motivators mean. but, of course, this is debatable. so finally, i will just leave it to you and your heart to have a discussion tonight.
for me and my heart, we agree that my biology teacher said it best. she said "living beings have to grow".
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